It is a sad fact that most men these days rely on their wingmen to help them pick up women. While this technique works sometimes, there is a likely chance that wingmen get in the way rather than help. Either they create a distraction and the woman becomes attracted to them, or they do something that turns the woman off. It’s high time that men start learning how to meet women without a wingman. Here are some tricks to consider:
Be A Person Worth Approaching
This may sound like something your guidance counselor would say, but it holds a lot of wisdom. Think about the kind of man that always gets women and emulate him. Understand the logic behind why this man is always approached, and be that person. He is a person worth approaching, and you want to be the same!
Go Out Alone
This can be intimidating at first, but going out alone is one of the best ways to meet women without a wingman. First off, you’re forced to do it by yourself. Second, you are showing that you are confident and capable of handling any situation you may run into. Lastly (and this is a perk for you), going out alone means you only have to think about what you want to do that night. You don’t have to postpone a rendezvous with a woman or have an awkward car ride back to your place because you have to drop some friend off first.
Employ a wing-GIRL
If you’re too self-conscious about looking like a loner, try employing a wing-girl instead. Wing-girls rarely say the wrong thing, and will not be a distraction in your process of picking up a woman. If anything, wing-girls (especially beautiful ones) will intrigue the woman, and pose as a challenge for your attention.
Get in Good with the Higher Ups
One of the best secrets to meeting women without a wingman is to make friends with people who run the bars and clubs. Bar and club owners, events promoters and the like are all very good friends to have when meeting women. They don’t hang around or keep an eye on your progress the way wingmen do, and introducing people to other people is part of their job. You will not be seen as someone trying to pick up a woman, rather someone who is well connected, popular, and in all likelihood in a position of power; three things that many women will be attracted to!
Remember to get over your crutch and start walking on your own! While it may take baby-steps, meeting women without a wingman is something that will pay off and work better in the long run!
Learn how else you can start meeting women without a wingman There are many more tricks and tips to be learned. All you need is a little time and commitment!